So.......the other day I went to the barber shop in need of a haircut. I went in and saw that the one guy that I KNEW could cut a mohawk wasn't there at the moment, and I saw a new barber that I haven't met before in the chair right next to his. So, in the interest of time, I just asked her if she knew how to cut a mohawk and actually knew how to fade it, to which she replied "yes" to both of those questions. I didn't feel like waiting so see if the other guy was or wasn't coming in today, [and quite frankly, I didn't like him that much anyways because he was awfully slow, (the last haircut I got with him took like an hour and 15mins!!!!!) and would try to get an attitude with me whenever I asked him a question about what he was doing with MY hair.*rolling eyes*] and just hopped in the chair and give this new lady a chance.
So, it started off all right and she seemed like she knew what she was doing, but then again, how would I know? Then she tried to show me the "final product" of her work with my hair, and it wasn't even faded......like I asked for. It was a straight up and down, clean cut, Mr. T Mohawk, and that's not how I roll. That wouldn't have been a real issue and it should have been an easy fix to just fade it all in, until it got to the point where I had to explain what "faded" means and that took about 5 more minutes. So when I thought she actually knew what I meant, I let her get back to her work on my head. BUT, just about every 2 minutes I had to stop her and make sure she was doing the right thing. And every time she would think that she was "finished," I would have to tell her "no, you forgot to..." whatever. And this wasn't even me being picky or just obnoxious. This is my hair, and if I'm paying u to cut it off, I have to be comfortable with the way it looks when I walk out the barbershop. So then, I see the main guy that I KNEW could cut a good, FADED, Mohawk and my barber politely asked him to help her out or give her some advice on what to do next. To that he said no, then carried off doing.....whatever. When he came back, my barber asked him again for some assistance and the dude was like "hey, I don't know you do your Mohawks and I don't know how to fix that." Liar. I don't know how to cut hair, but I've gotten enough haircuts in my life to realize that with a pair or skilled hands, this issue was NOT HARD to fix. Then he continued to say some mess like "hey, that's your client," and "hey, he should have just waited for me to come in." I responded with a quick "So is that my fault? She told me she knew what she was doing. Should I have to suffer [a bad haircut] for this?" He brushed me off and went on to take the next client. After about 20 more minutes of basically instructing the woman how to cut a faded Mohawk, we ended up getting it to a point where it was somewhat presentable.........I guess......well, I was just sick of the whole thing and was like "forget it, I just need to get out of here!" So I handed the woman $10, (half the cost of a normal haircut), and left.
It turned out that no one actually noticed that my haircut was slightly lopsided and the shape-up was uneven, and actually received compliments my hair, so it turned out to be all good. I chose to blog about this whole confusing event because I was so surprised at some of the actions of these barbers! First of all, the one woman said that she knew how to cut a faded Mohawk, when she clearly did not, although, I think she was just vastly confused opposed to dastardly malicious. But the REAL thing that bothered me was the fact that my barber asked one of the more experienced barber for help, and he rejected her with an attitude that screamed "not my problem!" I mean, he was looking out for himself and his own clientele rather than desiring to help out the store as a whole. I just could not believe that in a barbershop, a place that is supposed to be a rather lighter and more enjoyable environment, this whole "stank" attitude polluted the air. Based on some of the conversations that we had on Business Ethics in class, I do understand some of the cut-throat mentality of the business world, maybe when you're higher up in the totem pole and you're a lawyer or business owner who is edging the get the latest promotion, but why would you be that publicly adversarial at this level? ESPECIALLY when you work in customer service? I mean, I know had I waited on him to get into the shop, he could have walked away from the shop with an extra 20 bucks in his pockets, but c'mon now! It ain't that serious! If he would have helped me out, i would have probably jumped to his chair next time I needed a haircut and he would have looked like the "good guy" or the "hero", but now, I don't plan to ever go to that barbershop ever again! If I wanted a whole lot of extra unnecessary drama, I would have stayed in school for another hour. But this is just all my thoughts....
Do you think that the barber was right for looking out for himself, or should he have helped out my barber?
I might as well get to the point of this post and say that I don't believe in reincarnation at all. It's an interesting thought, but reincaration is just too farfatched for me to even comprehend, no less agree with it. One thing that probably affects my opinion is the fact that I wouldn't even want reincarnation to exist. I mean, I wouldn't want to live forever on Earth, it just has so many issues as it is and I'd honestly perfer some place new and more perfect after I die, like in my case, heaven. Plus, if I died as a human, that means I would turn into some other kind of animal, and I would hate that! Like I just left the Earth as a human being, why would I want to go through another life as anything else? Every other animal in the world is kind of subservient to the will of humans, so I would just end up being something with less freedom, and would probably have to work harder for anything I wanted to do. The only thing I would actually want to be reincarnated into is a tiger who lives in the rainforest, and how likely is that? Not very when you can be reincarnated into any kind of animal.....or plant. Oh my goodness I would hate to be a plant sooo much!
Um, I'd have to say that the golden rule doesn't apply to animals whatsoever. I mean, look into your refrigerator. Then think, "would I want to be killed and cut up into thin, decacent, slices and stacked next to the sliced chesse for the enjoyment of some one else's stomach?" Your answer shouldn't take long....So deos that mean you should swear off of meat, and throw buckets of blood at those who choose to eat it? No! Animals are very important to human life, but they do not have the same importance as another human being. If we had to apply the golden rule to every single thing that related to animals, no milk would be made because no one would like to have milk taken out of them, zoo's would be let loose because no one wants to be caged up and put up on display, and rodents and bugs would be free to roam around your house whenever they please because you would never want Raid or a mousetrap to kill you off. Animals have a place in this would and so do humans. Even in the Bible, God sent Adam to take charge and control all of the animals he and created. So obviously we should respect animals, but not consider them equals.